Hadith 128

(The book) ‘Shihab Al Akhbaar’ –
‘Rasool-Allah-saww said: ‘The wailing women is a deed of the pre-Islamic period’’. [218]
And he-saww said: ‘The patience is foremost at the shock’’. [219]
And he-saww said: ‘From the treasures of righteousness is concealment of the calamities, and the sicknesses, and the charity’’. [220]
(The book) ‘Mishkat Al Anwaar’ –
‘From Al-Reza-asws, from his-asws father-asws having said: ‘My-asws father-asws, meaning Abu Abdullah-asws, instructed me-asws to go to Al-Mufazzal Bin Umar and condole him with Ismail, and he-asws said: ‘Convey the greetings to Al-Mufazzal and said to him, we-asws are afflicted with Ismail, and we-asws are patient. Therefore, be patient just as we-asws are patient. We want a matter, and Allah-azwj Wants a matter. We-asws submit to the Command of Allah-azwj! ’’[221]
(The book) ‘Mishkat Al Anwaar’ –
‘From Al-Reza-asws, from his-asws father-asws having said: ‘My-asws father-asws (meaning Abu Abdullah-asws), instructed me-asws to go to Al-Mufazzal Bin Umar and condole him for Ismail, and he-asws said: ‘Convey the greetings to Al-Mufazzal and say to him, ‘We-asws are afflicted by Ismail and we-asws were patient, therefor be patient just as we-asws are being patient. When we-asws want a matter, and Allah-azwj Wants a matter, we-asws submit to the Command of Allah‑azwj’’. [222]
And from him, ‘From Jabir-ra, from Al-Baqir-asws having said: ‘When Tahir-as son-as of Rasool-Allah-saww passed away, (Syeda) Khadeeja-as cried. He-saww said: ‘Are you-as not satisfied if you-as were to find him‑as standing at the door of Paradise? When he-as sees you-as, he-as will hold your-as hand and admit you it is purest place and its best? ’
She-as said: ‘If that is to be like that’. He-saww said: ‘Allah-azwj is more Honourable and more Benevolent than to Strip a servant the delight of his heart, so he is patient, and is distressed, and he praised Allah-azwj, then He-azwj Punishes him’’. [223]
(The book) ‘Qurb Al Isnaad’ – by his chain, ‘From Ali son of Ja’far-asws, from his brother-asws Musa-asws, he said, ‘I asked him-asws about the lamenting. He-asws disliked it’’. [224]
(The book) ‘Majaalis’ of Al Sadouq – by his chain, ‘From Al-Sadiq-asws having said: ‘Rasool-Allah-saww said: ‘One who recognises the afflictions will be patient upon it, and one who does not recognise it, will deny it’’. [225]
And he-saww said: ‘One who is patient upon the disaster, Allah-azwj will Help him’’. [226]
And from him, from Hamza Bin Muhammad Al Alawy, from Abdul Aziz Bin Muhammad Al Ab’hary, from Muhammad Bin Zakariya Al Jowhary, from Shueyb Bin Waqid, from Al-Husayn Bin Zayd, ‘From his forefathers-asws having said: ‘Rasool-Allah-saww prohibited from the clamour during the calamity, and prohibited from the wailing woman and listening to her, and prohibited from slapping the face’’. [227]
And it is reported by Ibn Babuwayh, ‘From Al-Sadiq-asws having said: ‘The Prophet-saww, when the (news of) death of Ja’far-asws Bin Abu Talib-asws and Zayd Bin Harisa came to him-saww, when he-saww entered his-saww house there was a lot of crying upon them, and he-s