Hadith 87
الحديث 83
Bihar al-Anwar · Allamah al-Majlisi
ضه، روضة الواعظين قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ص رَأَيْتُ بِالْمَنَامِ رَجُلًا مِنْ أُمَّتِي قَدْ أَتَاهُ مَلَكُ الْمَوْتِ لِقَبْضِ رُوحِهِ فَجَاءَهُ بِرُّهُ بِوَالِدَيْهِ فَمَنَعَهُ مِنْهُ. وَ قَالَ ص رِضَى اللَّهِ مَعَ رِضَى الْوَالِدَيْنِ وَ سَخَطُ اللَّهِ مَعَ سَخَطِ الْوَالِدَيْنِ. وَ قَالَ ص مَا مِنْ وَلَدٍ بَارٍّ يَنْظُرُ إِلَى وَالِدَيْهِ نَظَرَ رَحْمَةٍ إِلَّا كَانَ لَهُ بِكُلِّ نَظْرَةٍ حِجَّةً مَبْرُورَةً
قَالُوا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَ إِنْ نَظَرَ كُلَّ يَوْمٍ مِائَةَ مَرَّةٍ
قَالَ نَعَمْ اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ وَ أَطْيَبُ. وَ قَالَ ص إِذَا نَظَرَ الْوَالِدُ إِلَى وَلَدِهِ فَسَرَّهُ كَانَ لِلْوَالِدِ عِتْقُ نَسَمَةٍ
قِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَ إِنْ نَظَرَ سِتِّينَ وَ ثَلَاثَمِائَةِ نَظْرَةٍ
قَالَ اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ. وَ قَالَ ص مِنْ حَقِّ الْوَلَدِ عَلَى وَالِدِهِ ثَلَاثَةٌ يُحَسِّنُ اسْمَهُ وَ يُعَلِّمُهُ الْكِتَابَةَ وَ يُزَوِّجُهُ إِذَا بَلَغَ. وَ قَالَ ص يُقَالُ لِلْعَاقِّ اعْمَلْ مَا شِئْتَ فَإِنِّي لَا أَغْفِرُ لَكَ وَ يُقَالُ لِلْبَارِّ اعْمَلْ مَا شِئْتَ فَإِنِّي سَأَغْفِرُ لَكَ. وَ قَالَ الصَّادِقُ ع مَنْ أَحَبَّ أَنْ يُخَفِّفَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ عَنْهُ سَكَرَاتِ الْمَوْتِ فَلْيَكُنْ لِقَرَابَتِهِ وَصُولًا وَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ بَارّاً فَإِذَا كَانَ كَذَلِكَ هَوَّنَ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ سَكَرَاتِ الْمَوْتِ وَ لَمْ يُصِبْهُ فِي حَيَاتِهِ فَقْرٌ أَبَداً. وَ قَالَ ع جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنِّي رَاغِبٌ فِي الْجِهَادِ نَشِيطٌ
قَالَ فَجَاهِدْ فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ فَإِنَّكَ إِنْ تُقْتَلْ كُنْتَ حَيّاً عِنْدَ اللَّهِ تُرْزَقُ وَ إِنْ مِتَّ فَقَدْ وَقَعَ أَجْرُكَ عَلَى اللَّهِ وَ إِنْ رَجَعْتَ خَرَجْتَ مِنَ الذُّنُوبِ كَمَا وُلِدْتَ
فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ لِي وَالِدَيْنِ كَبِيرَيْنِ يَزْعُمَانِ أَنَّهُمَا يَأْنَسَانِ بِي وَ يَكْرَهَانِ خُرُوجِي
فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ص أَقِمْ مَعَ وَالِدَيْكَ فَوَ الَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ لَأُنْسُهُمَا بِكَ يَوْماً وَ لَيْلَةً خَيْرٌ مِنْ جِهَادِ سَنَةٍ.
(The book) ‘Rowzat Al Waizeen’ –
‘Rasool-Allah-saww said: ‘I-saww saw in the dream, a man from my-saww community, the Angel of death had come to capture his soul, but his righteousness with his parents came to him and prevented him (Angel) from him’’. [91]
And he-saww said: ‘The Satisfaction of Allah-azwj is with satisfaction of the parents, and Annoyance of Allah-azwj is with annoyance of the parents’’. [92]
And he-saww said: ‘There is none from a son who is righteously looking at his parents with a look of mercy, except there will be for him, with every glance, an accomplished Hajj’. They said, ‘O Rasool-Allah-saww! And even if he were to look during every day, one hundred times? ’
He-saww said: ‘Yes! Allah-azwj is Greatest and best! ’’[93]
And he-saww said: ‘When the father looks at his son and it cheers him, for the father would be (Reward of) liberating a person’. It was said, ‘O Rasool-Allah-saww, and even if he were to look three hundred and sixty glances? ’
He-saww said: ‘Allah-azwj is the Greatest! ’’[94]
And he-saww said: ‘From a right of the son upon his father are three – He should (give him) a good name, and teach him the writing, and get him married when he matures’’. [95]
And he-saww said: ‘He-azwj will Say to the disloyal one: “Work whatever you so desire to, I-azwj will not Forgive (your sins) for you! ” And He-azwj will Say to the righteous one (to his parents): “Work whatever you so desire to, for I-azwj shall Forgive (your sins) for you! ”’[96]
And Al-Sadiq-asws said: ‘One who loves for Allah-azwj Mighty and Majestic to Lighten the pangs of death from him, then let him be connecting (heling) to his relatives and be righteous with his parents. If he were to be like that, Allah-azwj will Ease the pangs of death from him, and poverty will not hit him during his lifetime, ever! ’’[97]
And he-asws said: ‘A man came to Rasool-Allah-saww. He said, ‘O Rasool-Allah-saww said: ‘I am desirous regarding the Jihad actively! ’
He-saww said: ‘Then do Jihad in the Way of Allah-azwj. If you were to be killed, you will be alive being sustained in the Presence of Allah-azwj, and if you were to die, your Recompense will fall upon Allah-azwj, and if you were to return, you will have exited from the sins like what you had been born’. He said, ‘O Rasool-Allah-saww! There are old parents for me who claim that they are comforted with me and as disliking my going out (for Jihad)’. Rasool-Allah-saww said: ‘Stay with your parents. By the One-azwj in Whose Hand is my-saww soul! Their being comforted by you for a day and a night is better that (your) Jihad for a year’’. [98]
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