Hadith 43

o be a woman, take her with her width from direction of the Lahad, and take the man from direction of his legs, sliding him a gentle slid. When the woman is entered into the grave, her husband should stand from a place he can reach her hips. When you come out from the grave, then say while should are shaking your hand from the soil, ‘We are for Allah‑azwj are returning to Him-azwj’. Then shove the soil upon him with the back of your palm, three times, and say, ‘O Allah‑azwj Believing in You-azwj, and ratifying Your-azwj Book. ‘This is what Allah and His Rasool promised us, and Allah and His Rasool spoke the Truth’. [33: 22]’, for the one who does that and says these phrases, Allah-azwj would Write a good deed for him with every particle (of soil). Then even his grave and pour water upon it, and make the grave to be in front of you while you are facing the Qiblah, and begin pouring the water from his head and rotate with it upon the grave, then from four sides of the grave until you return, from without cutting the water. If there is something from the surplus water, pour it upon middle of the grave. Then place your hand upon the grave while you are facing the Qiblah, and say, ‘O Allah-azwj! Have Mercy on his estrangement, and Connect his loneliness, and Comfort his dreariness, and Secure his sacredness, and Pour upon him from Your-azwj Mercy, and Settle to him from the coolness of Your-azwj Pardon, and Vastness of Your-azwj Forgiveness and Your-azwj Mercy, such a Mercy he can been needless with it from mercy of the ones apart from You-azwj, and Resurrect him with the ones he used to befriend’. And whenever you visit his grave, then supplicate with this supplication while you are facing the Qiblah while your hands are upon the grave. And it is recommended that the foremost of the people with him should stay behind by his head after the people have dispersed from him, and he should grab a handful of soil and indoctrinate him (Talqeen) by raising his voice, for when he does that, he would be sufficed of the questioning in his grave. And the Sunnah is that the grave should be raised to four separated fingers from the ground, and if it were to be more, there is no problem, and it should be flat, and not humped’. And he (the narrator) said, ‘The Scholar-asws said: ‘My-asws father-asws