Hadith 78
الحديث 74
Bihar al-Anwar · Allamah al-Majlisi
مص، مصباح الشريعة قَالَ الصَّادِقُ ع بِرُّ الْوَالِدَيْنِ مِنْ حُسْنِ مَعْرِفَةِ الْعَبْدِ بِاللَّهِ إِذْ لَا عِبَادَةَ أَسْرَعُ بُلُوغاً بِصَاحِبِهَا إِلَى رِضَى اللَّهِ
مِنْ حُرْمَةِ الْوَالِدَيْنِ الْمُسْلِمَيْنِ لِوَجْهِ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى لِأَنَّ حَقَّ الْوَالِدَيْنِ مُشْتَقٌّ مِنْ حَقِّ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى إِذَا كَانَا عَلَى مِنْهَاجِ الدِّينِ وَ السُّنَّةِ وَ لَا يَكُونَانِ يَمْنَعَانِ الْوَلَدَ مِنْ طَاعَةِ اللَّهِ إِلَى مَعْصِيَتِهِ وَ مِنَ الْيَقِينِ إِلَى الشَّكِّ وَ مِنَ الزُّهْدِ إِلَى الدُّنْيَا وَ لَا يَدْعُوَانِهِ إِلَى خِلَافِ ذَلِكَ
فَإِذَا كَانَا كَذَلِكَ فَمَعْصِيَتُهُمَا طَاعَةٌ وَ طَاعَتُهُمَا مَعْصِيَةٌ قَالَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ- وَ إِنْ جاهَداكَ عَلى أَنْ تُشْرِكَ بِي ما لَيْسَ لَكَ بِهِ عِلْمٌ فَلا تُطِعْهُما
وَ أَمَّا فِي الْعِشْرَةِ فَدَارِ بِهِمَا وَ ارْفُقْ بِهِمَا وَ احْتَمِلْ أَذَاهُمَا لِحَقِّ مَا احْتَمَلَا عَنْكَ فِي حَالِ صِغَرِكَ وَ لَا تَقْبِضْ عَلَيْهِمَا فِيمَا قَدْ وَسَّعَ اللَّهُ عَلَيْكَ مِنَ الْمَأْكُولِ وَ الْمَلْبُوسِ وَ لَا تَحَوَّلْ بِوَجْهِكَ عَنْهُمَا وَ لَا تَرْفَعْ صَوْتَكَ فَوْقَ أَصْوَاتِهِمَا فَإِنَّهُ مِنَ التَّعْظِيمِ لِأَمْرِ اللَّهِ وَ قُلْ لَهُمَا بِأَحْسَنِ الْقَوْلِ وَ أَلْطَفِهِ- فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لا يُضِيعُ أَجْرَ الْمُحْسِنِينَ.
(The book) ‘Misbah Al Sharia’ –
‘Al-Sadiq-asws said: ‘Righteousness to the parents is from the good recognition with Allah-azwj by the servant when there is no (act of) worship quicker reaching with its owner to the Satisfaction of Allah-azwj. From sanctity of the Muslim parents is a Face of Allah-azwj the Exalted because a right of the parents is derived from a Right of Allah-azwj the Exalted, when they were to be upon the manifesto of the religion and the Sunnah, and they do not happen to be preventing the son from obeying Allah-azwj to disobeying Him-azwj, and from the certainty to the doubt, and from the ascetism to the world, and they are not calling him to beyond that. When they were to be like that, then disobeying them is obedience (to Allah-azwj) and obeying them is disobedience (to Allah-azwj. Allah-azwj Mighty and Majestic Says: And if they both strive against you upon that you should associate with Me, what there isn’t any knowledge for you of it, then do not obey them, [31: 15]. And as for regarding the living, so rotate with them and be kind with them, and tolerate their harm due to a right of what they had borne from you during the state of your childhood, and do not seize upon them regarding what Allah-azwj has Made capacious upon you, from the food and the clothing, and do not turn with your face away from them, and do not raise your voice above their voice, for it is from the reverence of a Command of Allah-azwj, and say to them the goodly words and the gentle, surely Allah does not Waste a Recompense of the good doers [9: 120]’’. [82]
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