Hadith 83
الحديث 79
Bihar al-Anwar · Allamah al-Majlisi
شي، تفسير العياشي عَنْ أَبِي وَلَّادٍ الْحَنَّاطِ قَالَ: سَأَلْتُ أَبَا عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع عَنْ قَوْلِ اللَّهِ وَ بِالْوالِدَيْنِ إِحْساناً فَقَالَ الْإِحْسَانُ أَنْ تُحْسِنَ صُحْبَتَهُمَا وَ لَا تُكَلِّفَهُمَا أَنْ يَسْأَلَاكَ شَيْئاً هُمَا يَحْتَاجَانِ إِلَيْهِ وَ إِنْ كَانَا مُسْتَغْنِيَيْنِ أَ لَيْسَ يَقُولُ اللَّهُ لَنْ تَنالُوا الْبِرَّ حَتَّى تُنْفِقُوا مِمَّا تُحِبُّونَ
ثُمَّ قَالَ أَبُو عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع وَ أَمَّا قَوْلُهُ إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَ عِنْدَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُما أَوْ كِلاهُما فَلا تَقُلْ لَهُما أُفٍ قَالَ إِنْ أَضْجَرَاكَ فَلَا تَقُلْ لَهُمَا أُفٍّ- وَ لا تَنْهَرْهُما إِنْ ضَرَبَاكَ
قَالَ وَ قُلْ لَهُما قَوْلًا كَرِيماً قَالَ تَقُولُ لَهُمَا عِنْدَ اللَّهِ لَكُمَا فَذَلِكَ مِنْكَ قَوْلٌ كَرِيمٌ
وَ قَالَ وَ اخْفِضْ لَهُما جَناحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ قَالَ لَا تَمْلَأْ عَيْنَيْكَ مِنَ النَّظَرِ إِلَيْهِمَا إِلَّا بِرَحْمَةٍ وَ رِقَّةٍ وَ لَا تَرْفَعْ صَوْتَكَ فَوْقَ أَصْوَاتِهِمَا وَ لَا يَدَيْكَ فَوْقَ أَيْدِيهِمَا وَ لَا تَتَقَدَّمْ قُدَّامَهُمَا.
Tafseer Al Ayyashi – From Abu Al Wallad Al Hannat who said, ‘I asked Abu Abdullah-asws about Words of Allah-azwj: and goodness with the parents [17: 23]. He-asws said: ‘The goodness is that you be of good accompaniment to them, and do not encumber them of anything they are needy to, and even if they were to be needless (from it. Isn’t Allah-azwj Saying: ‘You will never attain to righteousness until you are spending from what you are loving; [3: 92]? ’
Then Abu Abdullah-asws said: ‘And as for His-azwj Words: If they reach old age with you, one of them or both of them, then do not (even) say ‘Ugh’ to them – he-asws said: ‘If they rebuke you, do not say, ‘Ugh’ to them – nor chide them, [17: 23], if they were to hit you. He (the narrator) said, ‘and say gracious words to them [17: 23]’. He-asws said: ‘You should say, ‘There are (Rewards) for you both in the Presence of Allah-azwj’, so that would be a gracious word from you’. And he (the narrator) said, ‘And lower to them the wings of humbleness from the mercy [17: 24]’. He-asws said: ‘Do not fill your eyes from the looking at them except with mercy and kindness, and do not raise your voice above their voices, nor your hand above their hands, nor precede in front of them’’. [87]
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