Hadith 31

(The book) ‘Al Ilal’ – from his father, from Ali Bin Ibrahim, from his father raising it to, ‘Abu Abdullah-asws said: ‘It is befitting that he should stay behind by the grave of the deceased, the foremost of the people with him, after the people have dispersed from him, and he should grab a handful of soil and indoctrinate him (Talqeen), and raise his voice (with it). When he does that, the deceased would be sufficed of the questioning in his grave’’. [49]
Explanation (Hadeeth only) – From Abu Umama Al Bahily, ‘The Prophet-saww said: ‘When one of you dies, even out the soil upon him. Let one of you stand by his grave, then let him say, ‘O so and so, son of so and so mother! ’, for he does hear and cannot answer. Then he should say, ‘O so and so, son of so and so father! ’, secondly. He should sit upright, the let him say, ‘O so and so, son of so and so mother! ’, for he (deceased) would be saying, ‘Guide us, may Allah-azwj have Mercy on you! ’
He should say, ‘Recall what you have come out upon from the world. Testify that there is no god except Allah-azwj, and Muhammad-saww is His-azwj servant and His-azwj Rasool-saww, and you are pleased with Allah-azwj as Lord-azwj, and with Al Islam as religion, and with Muhammad-saww as Prophet-saww, and with the Quran as an Imam. So Munkar and Nakeer (questioning Angels), each one of them would stay back saying, ‘Let us go! We should not sit by this one, and he has already been indoctrinated his arguments’’. It was said, ‘O Rasool-Allah-saww! Supposing he does not know his mother? ’
He-saww said: ‘Let him attribute him to Hawwa-as’’.